If you’ve had the heartache of going through a break-up you maybe asking yourself if there’s a chance of getting your relationship back.
Firstly, it’s important that you realize that you have a lot of power when it comes to whether you’ll get him back or not. You need to think out what your plan is and make sure you don’t blunder into making the mistakes that end up pushing him even further away. If you take the right approach then you drastically improve your chances of getting your guy back.
It’s worth initially looking at the things you shouldn’t be doing.
Don’t be over bearing and start to suffocate him. Even although you are missing him and in pain, you must show restraint.
Becoming anxious can mean that you unwittingly come across as needy and desperate. Do you find that you’re phoning him at every opportunity?
Have you spent countless hours trying to talk him into taking you back again?
Do you keep saying sorry for every thing that might have gone in your relationship?
Perhaps you find yourself sending endless emails or messaging him non-stop?
Are you asking him for a second-chance every time you see him?
Such behaviour will only succeed in pushing him further and further away.
When men feel under pressure it’s quite natural for them to want to pull away from the situation. If you
really want to win him back then you need to give him a bit of time and space, you’ll do yourself a
favour by having a break too. Give him the opportunity to miss being with you. After all if you’re always
in his face how can he miss you? Another benefit of giving the relationship a bit of space and time is
that it allows you to get your own head together and really think about what you want for yourself now
and in the future.
Spend some time on yourself, improve how you feel about yourself and engage in things that bring a smile
to your face. Spend time with your family and friends, go to the gym or the beauty parlour. Taking this
approach means your ex boyfriend may start to think about why you don’t seem interested in him any more.
This should reduce the stress he may otherwise feel if you are hounding him every minute of the day. This
sets the ground for him to start thinking about you and missing what you had. You need him to be in the
right frame of mind, conducive to the idea of you two being an item again. As counter-intuitive as it may
seem backing off seems to have the effect of drawing him like a magnet to you.
You’ll tend to find that most men react like this, it’s in their nature. At the end of the day a
successful romantic reunion is possible, but remember although giving him some space is an essential
first step it’s still just the first of many steps you may have to take.